Help :(

Well, for my whole life my mum has never really spent much time with me. She's a rush in the morning, and we normally have an arguement every morning about how slow I get ready, even though I finish before her. She gets home from work late in the afternoon, cooks dinner and spends the rest of the night on the computer. I try to talk to her, but every time I do she doesn't listen and just gives me another chore so I go away. The only time she ever talks to me is pretty much when she's ordering me to do something. I'm desperate to spend time with her, I just want her to notice me, she's so obsessed with the computer. She probably loves it more than me. I try to spend time with her, but it never works. I asked about her mum, and her mum never really spent time with her either. So I guess that's why. People say I should try and spend time with her by doing thing she likes, but all she likes is sleeping! (she's got sleep apnea).I want to be close to my mum like everyone else. Please help.