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ok so i hate my mom. i serously hate her!
she judges my friends when she hasn't met them!
she doesn't know me when i'm her daughter.
we have compleatly different views on life. example: me:save the whales!
her: who gives a shit

me: likes to eat healthy and do things outside
her: eat nothing but fried chicken and throw away my life and be an unlikable person.

and she's like " you wanna be on tv? "
ok she's knowen me for 14 years! and i hate the spotlight, but i'm not a lonly island hermit.
and i even heard her one night saying how if i become famos she can more money to meet her friends at a convention! now i'm usally a pretty mellow person but when i snap, i SNAP!.
so one day i said i don't love you and walked away, and she just kept wathing tv! also i said i want to join the seasheapereds crew. [whale wars show] and she said no your going to be a peralegal! i hate that job!!! i want to be a scientist!! so, i figure, if she doesn't love me why can't i, so i do hate her. i want your thoughts.
 Mousefang posted over a year ago
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MRS-J0NAS said:
I'm sorry, i'd like to help but, i dont really understand what your try say.
But it seems like you and your mum have differences right?
Everybody is different, and you have to learn to look at your mums perspective.
Im sure she hated it when you told her you didnt love her. She probably was so upset, thats why she didnt say anything.
I think you and your mum should try and get to know each other better. Do things you BOTH like. Im sure there is something you agree on, if not, do something she likes, as much as it kills you. Do something nice with her. BOND, and she will soon see what your like, and what you want to be and she'll accept you. Its all about communication. Trust me, i know, i have problems with my mum too. But you just have to relate to each other.
Best of luck, hope i helped x
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thespikedturtle said:
Normally I wouldn't suggest this. But you might want to run away from home.

I suggest you get really mad at her, then run out the door. Tell a friend (or maybe grandparents) to wait for you a couple blocks away from your house. Go live with them for a couple days , (without your mom knowing where you are) and see if she really misses you. If she does, and she probably will, then you can move back with her, and feel happy knowing that she loves you. If she doesn't really react, then I don't know what to tell you.

I know it sounds like a crazy plan, but if worse comes to worst, I think it'd be a pretty good plan.
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i wish i could but granparents HATE me, and she even said once " do you want to go to a new home!" and i even said " well i'd be better off!!"
Mousefang posted over a year ago
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Do you have a good friend that would be willing to do that for you?
thespikedturtle posted over a year ago
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Dude^ That sounds like a really crazy plan :/.
leytonfaan_18 posted over a year ago
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Yes, yes it does. But it's for a pretty crazy situation, so it's just what I came up with.
thespikedturtle posted over a year ago
hatota said:
first off unplug her tv, then stand in front of her and tell her if she really cared about you she would care about things you want not what she wants. if she doesn't listen then i guess she is a cruel heartless person.
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