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Okay, I really like this boy, and I met him in a play. Turns out, he's my best friend's second cousin, but she is fine with me liking him. This is the first time I've seen him in months (we're both in another play.) I'm too scared to talk to him because I made a complete fool of myself when I first met him, because that was when I just had a crush on him, and it was kind of more of an obsessive puppy love crush, so whenever I saw him I'd get all excited (I've changed now.) I always think I'm over him, until I see him again, and that nervous, anxious feeling all over again. I had a dream where he liked me.....Am I falling for him? Or is it just a hormone thing? I have a feeling I'm going to see him more because he's related to my best friend and all (apparently their families are trying to get back in touch.)
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**I get that nervous, anxious feeling all over again
madisonsavanna posted over a year ago
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i think its just a crush nothing more
Madeline_Cullen posted over a year ago
 madisonsavanna posted over a year ago
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thespikedturtle said:
Well, you obviously have a crush on him. Whether you're falling for him or not is an entire different dealio. I definitely think you are, but my opinion probably isn't the best one to follow. Bottom line, "follow your heart." To be honest, it doesn't really matter if you're falling for him or not. You will know eventually for sure.
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dreamfields said:
Well you have a crush. At my age I have had more than a few. It is normal to act differently when you are nervous. Don't worry to much about the past. I think you should relax, be yourself and talk with him. Get to know him and decide if he is the type of person you would want to go with. It's good to follow your heart, just remeber that feeling and emotions can be misleading. Be true to your values & who you are. As you get to know him things will work out naturally.
Just my opinion, but don't go hog wild based on dreams you have. They can be affected by emotions, how you are feeling or sometimes what you eat. Be true to who you are! Good luck & God bless.
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posted over a year ago 
brooke9878 said:
It seems like you are falling for him. The same thing happened to me with my bf at the beginning of the year, I thought I was over him when he got a gf, but then I started dreaming of the two of us and got all excited and nervous whenever we talked. If I were you, I'd try to relax a bit and figure out if he has feelings for you. That's what I did and now we're dating.

Hope I helped :)
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posted over a year ago 
hatota said:
you should go to the movies and invite your friend,secretly ask her to bring her second cousin, and try to get a seat by him. he might like you ones he gets to know you
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posted over a year ago 
edaa said:
talk to him without being so excited... when he talks to you, if you still like him, then ur falling for him :))
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