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Am I being paranoid, or is this creepy?

I started a new camp, and this one guy automatically comes over and starts talking to me. Okay, that's fine, he could just be being friendly. So he keeps following me around. Maybe he just wants to be friends?

But by the next day, I can't go ANYWHERE without him over my shoulder. It's kinda creepy. He also tries to keep me isolated from everybody else. Like, I'll try to be talking to different people, and he'll keep on standing over my shoulder and trying to pull me out of the conversation, and then he gets annoyed whenever someone else tries to add on to a conversation he's having with me.

By the fourth day, he's saying all this weird mushy stuff, like "I think your face is beautiful just as it is". Like, maybe if I'd known someone for a long time I'd be okay, but four days? That brings up a red flag in my head.

I don't want to fall into a trap, but I don't want to hurt the guy either. What should I do? Am I just being paranoid? Or does it sound weird to you too? How should I handle it?
 XDRoseLuvsHP posted over a year ago
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djsheshe said:
whoah! i think thats really creepy. i personally am always paranoid, but this is seriously creepy. i say dont do anything to upset him like blow up or he might get violent. he just sounds the type to me. if he continues doing this, i think first just hang out with a span of people, and if u really cant take it anymore, tell someone older.

remember not to upset him, cuz maybe he has serious issues. just be careful.
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edaa said:
Believe me, you're not being paranoid. Are you still on that camp? Meet a girl when you just sid you're going to bathroom :D So you can tell her about him. She can help you with meeting other people without being followed by him :)hope helped! please tell me what's happening :)
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Try notto be around only him because that is werid, You never now it could be completely harmless but then it could also be dangerous
xgirl101 posted over a year ago
heartmerlin2 said:
Wow, you need your personal space from time to time!

My advice is to stay in a large group. If he continues and you really feel uncomfortable and that you want him to stop, get him to one side and tell him that you like hanging round with him but you would like it if he gave to some space. Keep calm and don't say it like your joking otherwise he won't take it seriously or think your trying to make him look a fool.

If he is sensible and not a 'character' then you will probably find he will give you more space, you may need to tell him a few times before he gets the message. If he purposely continues then tell someone older that you trust. Whether it's someone running the camp or an older campie, they should help. Good luck!
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posted over a year ago 
-_daniel_- said:
okay that just isn't normal. unless maybe he liked you from when he first saw you.. but still that's just overall weird
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