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it's a little embarassing,but,i think i've fallen in love with a fictional character.yeah...his name is hope from final fantasy XIII.he's my perfect guy,but he's not real.don't laugh,just help me!
i need help!
 kairi13050 posted over a year ago
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Sappp said:
This is completely normal. Teenage girls often fall in love with a fictional character or a celebrity. It is a safe way to experience these emotions without the risk of getting hurt. Most people grow over it at some point in puberty and then the boys around them are suddenly really interesting :)

So as long as this does not completely controls your life, enjoy your fantasies concerning this character. Just don't forget to look around, because real boys in the end are much better :)

I hope this helped.


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i love how you just assume i'mma teenage girl...lol just kidding!anyway,thanks!the guys around me aren't so great right now,but,maybe they'll change...or maybe i will!thanks!
kairi13050 posted over a year ago
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I actually checked your profile to see how old you are :) I had a crush on a fictional character too when I was younger ^_^
Sappp posted over a year ago
EgoMouse said:
Oh, don't worry about that. I fell in love with a fictional character too (..well, if you want to call it love. More like a small crush). It'll pass soon, don't worry. As long as you don't think about Hope all the time, its perfectly normal. Don't want your crush get in the way of everything else, right?

But, if all you think about is him and it really is getting in the way of normal life, then you need to keep yourself busy. Maybe work around the house, get a job, something that might take your mind off him. Visiting a comedy club for example sounds like the perfect way to get over it.
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lol.i don't even think i've ever seen a comedy club!anyway,i do think about him quite often,but,when school starts back up,i'll probably be too busy to think about him and everything will be fine!thanks for your help!
kairi13050 posted over a year ago
befferz said:
that's normal, maybe it's not him. maybe you just like that type of guy. Your probably not in love. just think he's cute. and in the heat of the moment have gotten confused. it's okay to have a crush on TV characters. if you look at most characters today. i think there partially made for that. it draws people to the show
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*coughs*he's notta tv character...he's from a game...but thanks for your help anyway!
kairi13050 posted over a year ago
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Sorry, sometimes I get the two confused.
befferz posted over a year ago
sehdt said:
We have all done it perfectly normal. Some people call it having a crush. I have had and still have them. My first was Hawkeye in MASH. Currently I have a crush on an actor rather than a fictional character. If you look at my profile you will see its David Tennant I seriously had a crush on him when he was Dr Who. When he announced he was leaving I cried my eyes out I was at the time 33 years old yes I know mad but true.
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