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Holy shiz, I need some major fricken help, ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!

Okay so here's the deal, I love my boyfriend, Shon, and I know that he is like totally in love with me, and I was exiting my ex today, and he said that he still liked me, and i was thinking back and I miss how he was so loving and nice and comforting, and shon he is so sweet when he wants to be and he really cares about me. And the thought of me leaving shon makes me cry, and the thought of me breaking Adams heart makes me cry, and the thought of me being without either, makes me cry. Another problem is that the two are like really close friends. And there is still a part of me that loves Adam, and still another part of me thats in love with shon and i don't know what the hell to do so if you could please help that would be amazing, the longer the respons the better!!!! Thank you!!!!
 supergirl1998 posted over a year ago
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alisonfaith297 said:
so lemme get this straight 2 guys and one your with and another you want to be with. plus they both like you and they are good friends. okay question, do they know about your relationship with one another that you secretly like his best friend?
if no, i suggest just break it off. BOTH. i'm serious, as much as it will break your heart you are doing the right thing by walking away. they are good friends, you dont want to be the cause for their friendship to potentially fall apart. furthermore, you may not work out with either of them so break if off. sneaking around is never a good idea, considering they are close friends they will most likely fin out. and you might find yourself in a position where they both turn on you blaming you. trust me friendship alway comes first.
If yes, and he is a okay, still break it off and walk away. even if he says he's okay, he is not. no one ever is. dating someone's ex just creates tension. and is never a good thing.
i know this is probably not what you want to hear but this is my opinion. oh how i wish i was wrong and hope that someone has a better solution.
but to keep your friendship with them and for them to remain friends, its the only way. cause sooner or later your feeling for with one of them will surface and this cause bigger problem so my advice is to break it off.
hope i helped, good luck :D
also, i never expreience this before so my advice is based on fiends who have been through this and other information.
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smileypop9 said:
Stay with Shon.
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