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Ok, so i've been dating this guy for about 8 months, and at first I really liked him but now I feel like the spark has worn off, he never holds my hand anymore and after 8 months we still haven't kissed. Also, I think this guy who used to be close friends with me likes me, and I feel like i'd be happier with him but im not sure if I should risk breaking up with my current boyfriend, or just stay with him and see how it goes. Please help!
 DibLuver25 posted over a year ago
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alisonfaith297 said:
well let me get this straight
there are 2 guys lets call them A and B
so guy A is your boyfriend
B is a close friend
ok..
my advice break up with your boyfriends. (first thing) hey to be honest, it better to not be in a relationship then be in one where it feels like nothing. seriously. it not anout you getting another boy. it about you being happy. if you are not satisfied with him then BREAK UP. it not about like you know how ppl think if you dont have a BF/ GF you're in a way not cool. this issue i would consider as a separate one. seriously. break up.

as for your friend, this depends on a lot of thing. mainly, how much you value your friendship with him. cause as far as i know, when you get together with a close friend then break up, you aren't as close anymore. there is this sort of awkward tension. so it really depends.
GOOD LUCK!
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Thanks a ton!! :)
DibLuver25 posted over a year ago
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agreed with the last part <3
teamsalvatore98 posted over a year ago
skytail127 said:
ok, so with the boyfriend (which you want to deal with first) if you dont like being with him anymore, there is no reason to stay with him. leave him. better no relationship than a dead-end one. and dont stay with him just cause your afraid of being alone, thats no good.

once youve dealt with the boyfriend, then you can start to work out your feelings for your friend. the questions to ask yourself are: do you realy like him that way? are you willing to risk your friendship with him? would you be ok with being just friends with him? takeing that step between friends and dateing is a huge risk, cause once youve taken that step, you cant go back. you could breakup and go back to being friends but it will never be the same between you two, it just wont. then again if you realy like him and being just friends with him isnt ok with you anymore, then you realy dont hav much of a choice, you either take the leap or become unhappy with the relationship and drift apart.

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