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This is going to be a long story.
So this morning, I didn't have any shorts to wear, and I stole one from my sister's closet. I was going to ask here before but forgot. Then, she got very mad at me, crying and stomping her feet, calling me a "dumb bitch" and forcing me to take them off. She didn't want me to wear them because she loved them dearly (I didn't know this before) and didn't want me to get them dirty. My mom grounded her for a week, and my sister was very angry at me.
When I was in Home Ec., I was making cookies and some oil spilt on the pants. My sister was very mad and insulted me. My mom made her do all of the afternoon chores (clearing and filling in the dishwasher and walking the dog), and told me to take a break.
My sister is now holding a grudge against me. I tried to be nice to her, and she just yelled at me. I wasn't that scared or mad at her, but she insisted that she takes the punishment even when I offered to do some of it for her. What should I do?
 xxXsk8trXxx posted over a year ago
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alisonfaith297 said:
ok. well, i get that your sister is angry at you but she probably also angry at your mom but as she is your mom she cant take the anger out on her so she does it onto you. just keep on trying to be nice to her. you dont have to take her punishment. she also may have something else going on with her thats why she is acting that way.
dont stress out about it so much, she probably is just made at you, continue to reason with her. i'm sure eventually she will forgive and come through.
good luck
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posted over a year ago 
Chaann94 said:
Well at first, I don't want to attack your mother, but I think she should have stayed out of this. I mean, that only made your sister more frustrated because she didn't do anything wrong(except overreacting a bit maybe). And something between sisters should stay something between sisters.

But anyways this is what you can do. I don't know why your sister loved those shorts so much(with that I mean, did she just loved them as in they were the perfect fit and looked awesome or did they have any significance to her?), but I think you could buy her a new pair of shorts and tell her you're really sorry and that next time you'll ask her first and if she says no, it's a not and that you'll be more careful with her stuff in the future.

I don't have any sisters but two of my best friends are eachothers twins so I always get to hear all sides of the story.

Hope I helped!
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posted over a year ago 
skytail127 said:
I'd suggest doing what you can to fix the shorts and getting her some new ones if u cant fix the old ones. other than that there is realy very little you can do but continue being nice to her and give it some time. it should blow over eventualy. you also might want to give her a little space and wait till the ashes settle. if she is realy mad at u, your attempts to be nice too soon may only serve to annoy her.
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