I'm guessing you're probably feeling very overwhelmed. You should first understand then, that getting over someone takes time. It is definitely not something that happens overnight. Expecting it to be over at the snap of the fingers is what makes it worse. So accept that it's going to take time and work. There is no quick fix.
What I've found to be helpful personally is spending time doing what you like. If you're into sports or writing or reading or painting or any other form of recreation, immerse yourself in it. Enjoy what you're doing because it will take your mind off your ex.
Doing things you like works in that it reminds you that you can have fun without him, that it's okay to be by yourself because you are more than sufficient company. You'll probably find that your mind keeps wandering back to him, but that okay, it's normal and expected. But given time, you'll find that you think of him much less.
Also what I've found helps is surrounding yourself with family and friends. Being around other people who care about you and vice versa will help you remember that he's not the only one who can make you feel loved and appreciated. Go for family walks, go for shopping with friends, go to the park, take part in family activities, etc.
What is most important that you should remember is to give yourself time and space. Time is a great healer. Let it do what it's meant to.
I hope I've helped somehow.
posted over a year ago
somehow? THT WAS THE BEST ANSWER EVER! i will ask 4 ur advice in the future. tht was so wise of u. i am gonna do wat u said and just chill with the people i love and care 4. u r so cool. thx a bunch. SmileyGG xoxo
I just got out of a bad breakup myself, this is how I got over it -
I watched funny movies that make me feel better, listened to uplifting breakup songs [e.g. Picture to Burn - Taylor Swift, I Look So Good (Without You) - Jessie James], and surrounded myself with my friends that were girls and through that I got over it.
Hope I helped some (:
posted over a year ago
that is a really answer thank u so much i will think of ur advice and remember it. u helped absolutly loads! gg.
Ok first things first do not rush into anything give yourself time you will probably feel sad now then angry before you actually get over him. So dealing with sadness usually means a good cry which is to be expected. As for anger that's hard but I am sure you will get over it in your own way. Time is the key.
it hurt to be dumped, weve all been there, or will be there sometime. try and have some fun. surround yourself with friends, listen to good songs, grab some icecream. go out have some fun, do what you enjoy. and remember you are better off without him. try to move on with your life. and if all else fails, time heals all wounds. so remember. this too shall pass.
