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Give me an advice please.

Okay, so this guy who REALLY likes me and has a crush on me, said "I love you" already. And I'm pretty sure, I've been posting things about him on my previous questions.
And to be honest I'm not ready to have a boyfriend. Even if I wanted to. I get jealous easily when I see couples from TV or people in our home town so sweet and cute with their boyfriends.
And I think this guy's crushing on me will court me sooner or later. And I'm gonna reject him because, he's not the one I'm looking for plus I'm not ready.

Please give me advice about rejecting him or telling him that I don't feel the same way in a RIGHT and a NICE way. Thank you.
 mitchie19 posted over a year ago
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Hopeful-girl said:
Well, I think you shouldn't reject him but you should tell him that you're not ready for this relationship at this period of time and that you need some space and time to know how you really feel......
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I agree :)
willowjames posted over a year ago
dreamfields said:
Hello,
I think you've answered your own question. You can politely tell him that you are not interested in a boyfriend right now. Also, mention that you just don't think or feel about him in that way. Let him know it's not him personally, but that you are not just ready for a relationship. You can be nice and firm at the same time. Hey, good luck and God bless!!!
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skytail127 said:
well, if your not ready for a boyfriend your not ready for a boyfriend, simple as that. and you tell him that. dont overthink it. theres realy nothing more to it so thats all you need to say. dont try to explian further than that. tell him your not ready for a boyfriend and leave it at that. keep it short, sweet and to the point.

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posted over a year ago 
sehdt said:
The only way is up front tell him the reasons in a calm controlled way. I am sure you will be nice and gentle with him. Crushing someones feelings is never easy but I think you can do it nicely. Good luck.
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