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I'm a normal high-school girl who wants to well... be treated normal
So here's my life story... no. Just kidding- here's high school for me. Any advice?
I'm pretty smart but everyone who knows me (at school) thinks it's my best quality. I agree, but they don't get that I don't want to cure cancer or be a rocket scientist. I am quiet and kind of shy. I have one best friend-that's-a-boy, and a small group of friends, and I am both artistic and musical. If I answer a question wrong in school, several people in class will reply something along the lines of, "Ohhhhh she got it wrong." At least three times a week, someone asks me for the homework answers. ("Dude, I'm not even in your class!" or "Here, 'cause I don't care"). I procrastinate way too much. I joined the Lacrosse team in March, and I still had people in June saying "What?! You play Lacrosse?" Unfortunately, I can't say that I was actually good at it. The thing is, that there are people who are much smarter than me, several of them my friends. Other than (and sometimes including my friends), people avoid me. If people are passing rumours that aren't even about me, they say they won't tell me because my innocent little mind can't handle it. I never get teased (people probably talk about me behind my back, but I don't care as much as I should), and everyone says they like me except for the girls who I made it clear to them that I did not like them at all. Yet I find my self lonely a lot and I feel awkward- even more than I already am. I want to be a bit more popular. I want people to get that I'm not as smart as they think, I really don't enjoy homework, and I don't want to be the same person as now when I grow up. I would like a best friend and boyfriend, and want people to stop avoiding me in general.
Now I'm done. Ok I kind of lied- that was more venting than asking for advice. But any would be nice.
I'm pretty smart but everyone who knows me (at school) thinks it's my best quality. I agree, but they don't get that I don't want to cure cancer or be a rocket scientist. I am quiet and kind of shy. I have one best friend-that's-a-boy, and a small group of friends, and I am both artistic and musical. If I answer a question wrong in school, several people in class will reply something along the lines of, "Ohhhhh she got it wrong." At least three times a week, someone asks me for the homework answers. ("Dude, I'm not even in your class!" or "Here, 'cause I don't care"). I procrastinate way too much. I joined the Lacrosse team in March, and I still had people in June saying "What?! You play Lacrosse?" Unfortunately, I can't say that I was actually good at it. The thing is, that there are people who are much smarter than me, several of them my friends. Other than (and sometimes including my friends), people avoid me. If people are passing rumours that aren't even about me, they say they won't tell me because my innocent little mind can't handle it. I never get teased (people probably talk about me behind my back, but I don't care as much as I should), and everyone says they like me except for the girls who I made it clear to them that I did not like them at all. Yet I find my self lonely a lot and I feel awkward- even more than I already am. I want to be a bit more popular. I want people to get that I'm not as smart as they think, I really don't enjoy homework, and I don't want to be the same person as now when I grow up. I would like a best friend and boyfriend, and want people to stop avoiding me in general.
Now I'm done. Ok I kind of lied- that was more venting than asking for advice. But any would be nice.
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