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How can I convince my mom about something?

Recently, I started roleplaying on Facebook, Tron to be specific. I give my mom all my passwords and usernames to all my accounts. While my friend was sleeping over, she checked into my account and began to overreact about a lot of things. There was this guy that I started to love, who died recently, and I told her about it.
She somehow got the idea that I was watching porn (which I don't). She flipped her lid when, even though she'd never told me I couldn't use it, I asked my father and he told me it was okay. While I was deleting people from my friends list, she got angry and took away my laptop. This is the third day I've been allowed to use it. But a couple days ago, she screamed that I'd been lying to her, and deleted the account - I couldn't even say goodbye.
Now, the few people who can still contact me through things like deviantART have told me they really miss me, and they want me back - bad. Especially my best friend. But I've never gone behind my mother's back, and I don't want to start doing it now. How can I convince her to let me redo my acccount, that I don't watch porn, and that not everybody who owns a computer is a psychotic rapist out to get me?
 xVanilla-Saltx posted over a year ago
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xenriquegrl said:
Maybe you should just say: ''mom I really need to talk to you''. You know like girl talk! Tell her exaclty how you feel and what you wanna do and that ur sorry. Tell her you don't watch porn and that you don't do what she assumes you do on the net! Even offer something to make it up to her! Or like, you know, offer something to do to prove that ur telling the truth or whatever! Hope it works out!:)
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Thank you - that helps! I'll try to do that!
xVanilla-Saltx posted over a year ago
writer67 said:
you have been honest but she flipped out, maybe she flipped out, us parents do that, sometimes we are guilty of something regarding our computer surfing. porn isnt you you would rather study and be with friends . deviant art isnt that as the words can describe. many that have lost someone special or of someone they know head to the sight and draw , they dont know why yet many are items of interest to the eyes of any beholder. never say goodbye it means you will never see them again. you do good and deserve a laptop as it does help with study school countries history surfing! you have always been honest, and have shown her respect and obeyed her, as is stated in Gods laws.your input to deviant art is valued, ask mum to join in one night if she trusts you enough, as all are supposed to make mistakes thats how we learn to do better, even leonardo da vinci hadd papper and a pen as his computer. but ask why does she not trust her own generation. are you a person of such eberyday bad behavior. computers have parental controls, with a code she can have if there is no trust. OR YOU HAVE TO MOVE TO A RELATIVE WHO MAY FEEL PITY OF AN UNWORTHY TRUTHFULL SERVANT OF STUDY, with aa laptop;-]
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