Looking for a lifetime movie from the 90s. Dark haired middle aged woman married to a violent man named Gary
The movie starts with her smoking a cigarette and talking to the camera.
They move to a new city with two kids....he beats his wife...and calls the police on the loud young neighbors that party. I'm pretty sure he shoots one of the neighbors. She moved to a women's shelter and works at a diner. She ends up dating the boss and her ex husband Gary shoots her outside of a restaurant