{I was lookin for my cute finger-art pic to match ~ sadly could not find (may look afgain later).}
Sadly I think most people choose the one THEY love, even if the one who loves them is someone really special they might miss out completely on.
On Fanpop, when I joined, I already knew someone and I chose them- they loved me, but there was someone else who loved me too, and yet I chose the one I had those feelings for. It proved, yet again, not a good choice.
I am glad I rescinded. Things worked out as they did and I gave that other person a chance who LOVED me - and that was the BEST decision - proved a GOOd choice... sadly there was some battle when I should have chosen the one who loved me to begin with!