READ THIS FIRST : I just felt the need to write this as a way of release of my current feelings on 1D and the fandom. If you don't care to hear my whole monologue on why i'm leaving, and all that stuff you can just turn away now because i really don't need any rude comments on this. I didn't do this for anyone except my own personal satisfaction of getting this of my chest before editing my accounting deleting some things and leaving the fanpage.
. I have been with one direction since the beginning through there auditions to bootcmp to the elimination to them becoming a huge success. I love them all to death especially since they were the kind of band that act goofy and silly and were very unique kind of band. But over the years even though i still contain that strong fondness for each one of them i find myself growing more dissapointed with the types of encounters i have had with people in the fandom. AT THIS POINT I WILL SAY I DON'T MEAN THE WHOLE FANDOM BUT A LOT OF PEOPLE IN THE FANDOM IF THIS IS NOT YOU DON'T BE OFFENDED BECAUSE THAT IS NOT MY INTENTION.
I have run into some really rude and agressive people who send death threats and hate because they cannot handle others opinions and this happened years ago and i still stayed for the boys but i feel that i have just grown tired of how some people in this fandom act and behave so immaturely. So i mark it here the day i'm finally done woth this fandom.
To those people not respecting the boys and their right to privacy, asking for their phone numbers, house addresses. Please learn to respect their privacy. They may be famous but their still human beings who deserve a private life and you asking their private information is in no way respectful or being a good fan.
To those who have ever sent hate or death threats to anyone else for expressing their opinion. You should be ashamed and disguisted with yourself. A person has a right to have an opinion that is not the same as yours or you may not agree with and hating on them for it is immature and disguisting.
I still love these boys to death and will continue to support them as best i can and i wish them well but i grow tired of some people. Disagree as much as you like if you do but some people in the fandom give one direction a bad name and are the reason a lot of people outside the fandom hate one direction without actually knowing them.
Warning: I TALK ABOUT OTHER INCIDENTS THAT SOME PEOPLE IN THE FANDOM HAD WITH OTHER BANDS OF NOT INTRESESTED DON'T READ.
First thing that led to me leaving the fandom the incident with Mitch Lucker who was a singer in the band suicide silence. Mitch Lucker passed away at age 28 in a motorcycle accident. After his death one direction "fans" did the most fucking disguisting thing they could do they disrespected a man who had just passed away by writing disguisting hate messages to fans of Mitch. I am not even a fan of suicide silence yet i still felt mournful for this young man who had his life cut short especially since he was married and had a young 5 year old daughter. These "fans" posted disguisting messages saying how he probably commited suicide because he was weak and emo, and how his daughter should commit suicide. First of all people who commit suicide aren't all emo get it right and they are also not weak. Suicide is a serious thing and are commited by people who have seen and experienced things that they cannot deal with and their mental state can't deal with or by people who are overworked and stressed amd feel the need for a break from everything. Second how fucked up in the head must you be to say his innocent 5 year old daughter should commit suicide thats a whole new level of fucked up and those people who sent the comments need serious help.
Second thing that led to me leaving was the incident with Big Bang. Now Big Bang is a popular South korean band who debuted in 2006. The group consist of G-Dragon, T.O.P, Taeyang, Daesung, and Seungri. I love Big Bang to death just as much as 1D so after they won the MTV award for best fans i was happy for them just like i would have been if 1D won as well. Some "fans" of 1D lost it and started sending hate messages to Daesung calling him for a car crash the occured in 2011 where somebody lost his life. That in itself is an unforgivable disguisting thing to do since Daesung was so consumed with guilt and pain over it and spent years crying over the pain of what happened he apoligized to the victims family and still hurts to this day i'm sure. How dare them call him a murder over something he himself feels guilt over. Then if that wasn't bad enough they continued to insult Big Bang because they couldn't handle the fact that 1D lost to Big Bang.
Now i end this by saying how i love the boys and always will but i feel the fans are making me hate their music and grow resentful to them and that horrifies me because i don't want to hate them and it's not their fault some fans act the way they do. So please if your one of those people who treat the boys like objects, and does not respect others opinions or other bands. Learn that the boys are not property they are people, learn that others are entitled to their opinion and you have no right to shoot it down or hate, and leave other bands alone and know one direction isn't going to win all the awards.
I HOPE I DIDN'T INSULT TO MANY PEOPLE THIS WAS JUST A RELIEF TO GET OF MY CHEST KNOW AGAING I DON'T MEAN EVERYBODY IN THE FANDOM JUST SOME PEOPLE.
I wish the boys the best and hope they continue to succeed.
. I have been with one direction since the beginning through there auditions to bootcmp to the elimination to them becoming a huge success. I love them all to death especially since they were the kind of band that act goofy and silly and were very unique kind of band. But over the years even though i still contain that strong fondness for each one of them i find myself growing more dissapointed with the types of encounters i have had with people in the fandom. AT THIS POINT I WILL SAY I DON'T MEAN THE WHOLE FANDOM BUT A LOT OF PEOPLE IN THE FANDOM IF THIS IS NOT YOU DON'T BE OFFENDED BECAUSE THAT IS NOT MY INTENTION.
I have run into some really rude and agressive people who send death threats and hate because they cannot handle others opinions and this happened years ago and i still stayed for the boys but i feel that i have just grown tired of how some people in this fandom act and behave so immaturely. So i mark it here the day i'm finally done woth this fandom.
To those people not respecting the boys and their right to privacy, asking for their phone numbers, house addresses. Please learn to respect their privacy. They may be famous but their still human beings who deserve a private life and you asking their private information is in no way respectful or being a good fan.
To those who have ever sent hate or death threats to anyone else for expressing their opinion. You should be ashamed and disguisted with yourself. A person has a right to have an opinion that is not the same as yours or you may not agree with and hating on them for it is immature and disguisting.
I still love these boys to death and will continue to support them as best i can and i wish them well but i grow tired of some people. Disagree as much as you like if you do but some people in the fandom give one direction a bad name and are the reason a lot of people outside the fandom hate one direction without actually knowing them.
Warning: I TALK ABOUT OTHER INCIDENTS THAT SOME PEOPLE IN THE FANDOM HAD WITH OTHER BANDS OF NOT INTRESESTED DON'T READ.
First thing that led to me leaving the fandom the incident with Mitch Lucker who was a singer in the band suicide silence. Mitch Lucker passed away at age 28 in a motorcycle accident. After his death one direction "fans" did the most fucking disguisting thing they could do they disrespected a man who had just passed away by writing disguisting hate messages to fans of Mitch. I am not even a fan of suicide silence yet i still felt mournful for this young man who had his life cut short especially since he was married and had a young 5 year old daughter. These "fans" posted disguisting messages saying how he probably commited suicide because he was weak and emo, and how his daughter should commit suicide. First of all people who commit suicide aren't all emo get it right and they are also not weak. Suicide is a serious thing and are commited by people who have seen and experienced things that they cannot deal with and their mental state can't deal with or by people who are overworked and stressed amd feel the need for a break from everything. Second how fucked up in the head must you be to say his innocent 5 year old daughter should commit suicide thats a whole new level of fucked up and those people who sent the comments need serious help.
Second thing that led to me leaving was the incident with Big Bang. Now Big Bang is a popular South korean band who debuted in 2006. The group consist of G-Dragon, T.O.P, Taeyang, Daesung, and Seungri. I love Big Bang to death just as much as 1D so after they won the MTV award for best fans i was happy for them just like i would have been if 1D won as well. Some "fans" of 1D lost it and started sending hate messages to Daesung calling him for a car crash the occured in 2011 where somebody lost his life. That in itself is an unforgivable disguisting thing to do since Daesung was so consumed with guilt and pain over it and spent years crying over the pain of what happened he apoligized to the victims family and still hurts to this day i'm sure. How dare them call him a murder over something he himself feels guilt over. Then if that wasn't bad enough they continued to insult Big Bang because they couldn't handle the fact that 1D lost to Big Bang.
Now i end this by saying how i love the boys and always will but i feel the fans are making me hate their music and grow resentful to them and that horrifies me because i don't want to hate them and it's not their fault some fans act the way they do. So please if your one of those people who treat the boys like objects, and does not respect others opinions or other bands. Learn that the boys are not property they are people, learn that others are entitled to their opinion and you have no right to shoot it down or hate, and leave other bands alone and know one direction isn't going to win all the awards.
I HOPE I DIDN'T INSULT TO MANY PEOPLE THIS WAS JUST A RELIEF TO GET OF MY CHEST KNOW AGAING I DON'T MEAN EVERYBODY IN THE FANDOM JUST SOME PEOPLE.
I wish the boys the best and hope they continue to succeed.