When will you learn that it is not a good idea to ask people to rate your physical appearance online , you might not always like what you hear . And then you act as if a victim , blaming that person for being crude in a way of " dishonest " however you asked the question and that person answered . Maybe you should ready yourself for the possiblities of the individual opinions before you post this question . Maybe you shouldn't post it if you can't handle the answers .