Am I the only 1 who feels a moment of complete rejection when a trade on any of the many sites that allow trades is deleted?

And even when you ask them to edit and you send a message saying you what them to edit and discus what they want they still delete it as if you didn't say anything to them...you send it specifically as an edit so they would add or take off or whatever...and they just say it was bad and your like "i know it was bad tht's why i sent you a message saying it was bad so u could tell me what u want and tht's why it was sent as a suggestion so u could change it"