ok guys this is fr yu ol... do you think its fair if elena leaves stefan n goes for damon.evryone keeps shoutin "damon n elena" but stefan ws always caring for her even before damon. he alws supported him... so tel?

good answer

Thank you.

Very well said. I agree completely.

*round of appluase*

Yeah, I love how Damon treates her. How at the end of the day he just needs her safe. It doesn't matter if she hates him. A, Been-there-done-that sort of situation, really.

the reason stefan follow elena around at first was because she looked like katherine.

Then he found that she wasn't like Katherine.

Wow, just think through how creepy that comment sounded. "Yeah Babe, I knew you weren't my creepy Ex becuase I've been watching you!" Stalker, much?

yup i wtchd d tv shw, people want to see them 2gether just bcoz damon is a hot guy... thts it ! so gals r inclined 2wrds him. btwn stefan isnt using elena at ol... he simply hates katherine

I do believe that Stefan loves Elena, In my opinion, Stefan is acting like a guy that is dealing with the ex-girlfriend just showing up out of nowhere. He does love Elena I know that but what I was triing to explain and didn'tget the chance to is that he does loves Elena but is still in love with Katherine and always will be, He hates her because she tore his heart out nad has moved on with Elena, the question is have you had your heart tore out and moved on your ex just shows up out of nowhere and tries to steal you back. If you have watched the show like you have claimed you would knowthat Stefan is dealing with alot and Katherine wants him back because she loves him and has chosen to be with him. Read my comments on Katherine and Stefan before you freakout next time. All I am saying is that just because you see it one way doesn't mean that a person can;t see it another way clearly either you have never been in this kind of a relationship and don't know what I mean or you just wanted to have me respond. I am not upset I just don't understand wht the hell the problem is.

I di know what it feels like to be treated like crap. I was just going by what Isobel did before she died. She gave her up because she loved Elena and wanted to do what was best for her. Both she and John Told Elena that they thought that giving her up was keeping her safe. They both loved and cared for her and both parents were triing to protect her by giving her up for adoption to the gilberts. I don't know if you watched the whole episode or all the episodes, but Isobel was compelled by Klaus the first time that she met Elena. She didn't treat her like crap, she was told to do what she did to Elena. She explained it to both Elena and Alaric. She loved them both and wanted to protect them. That is why she died, to proove that it wasn't her decision and her choice. Like I said I don't mind Explaining. As for Damon and Katherine and Stefan, they both have feelings for katherine and alaways will. even after 162 years the three of them have feelings for eachother and are dealing with it. I feel sorry for Elena because she is an innocent bistandard and really had nothing to do with them. Like I said I don't mind explaining my answers, I have seen most but not all of vampire diaries.