^Whether or not it's a joke, guys vary; they're not all the same. To be frank, though, I've learned straight from a guy friend that they like honesty and confidence. Also when girls are straightforward. But again, it depends on the guy.over a year ago
it might depend on the guy but the biggest thing you need to remember is that things can change. I was married for 22 years & was married to someone I wasn't compatible for, should have left him years ago but I loved him & believed that when you make a commitment, you work it out & stay together but it doesn't always work out that way, it takes both of you working together but one & the other banging her head against the wall but anyway, they can change but sometimes you just want to see what you want & don't see the real him so be careful, listen to the older folks, they know what they are talking aboutover a year ago
it took me way too long to get to the point I have & way too long to accept things as they really were, it's a long hard road & the hardest part is that your child suffers the most, so be careful & at least go with a guy for a couple of years before jumping in, but I'm telling you, you can even do all that & he still can change 10 or 20 years down the road, cause life gets in the way of everything & there are just way too many selfish people in the world. All my hubby seems to love & think about is money among other things but those are the top 2 though. We've been seperated for 8 months & he's on his 3rd girlfriend & he still wants his cake & eat it too cause he's mad that I want take him back, cause I'm done with all his abuse & selfishness & more importantly, the pain he's caused our daughter so that was my last straw, the one thing I can't take is him causing her pain or abusing her so please be careful ghosttravellers & please go slow, you think it doesn't matterover a year ago
but it really does, don't learn the hard way like I did. I wish you the best & please heed my advice, even though I know you weren't exactly asking me.over a year ago