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So my boyfriend's parents are nuts. Long story short, I have a court case pending because I am filing bankruptcy and the case was about me owing money. Such cases are public record and they put in your address. With that...
My bf's parents told him if he didn't take the vaccine by a certain date, he couldn't visit them for Christmas. Which haha joke's on them since he doesn't want to see them anyway so this gives him an out. He already wasn't going to take the vaccine. When he did so, they got PISSED. And their response was "well, that's not like him" so they just assumed I was involved with his decision - which I'm not. Because of this, they searched me in the court system (I assume after they exhausted their options trying to find me elsewhere) and found out we are living together. He had not told them because they hate me, and he said as much to them on the phone last night.
So his parents searched for information about MY LIFE, invading MY PRIVACY because they were mad my bf told them he wasn't taking the vaccine and assuming I was in control of that decision. How psycho do you have to be??? Wish I could get a restraining order - seriously. I now feel more of a shut-in in my own home because I just think what if they are just sitting outside hoping to catch a glimpse? My bf said I am their Donald Trump. They hate me so much they can't think straight. It's a flattering comparison. I have to try to laugh this off somehow because it's very creepy and invasive.
Sounds like they are the kind of people that think no one could ever be good enough for their son. Try to ignore all the negativity where possible Heather.Sometimes no reaction is the best reaction.Hope things will settle down for you both :)over a year ago
Wow that was a roller coaster since line 1! Sad to hear your in-laws are like that, but I hope you and your boyfriend have a great time together this Christmas! Like Berni said, just ignore them and they will eventually realize they canβt interfere with your lives.over a year ago
I finished my tree! My lights have 8 different modes to choose from, so my tree is even more impressive in video but since I can't upload a video here you'll have to settle for a picture!
So, you guys know I'm visiting my grandfather and while I'm looking to the visit, I'm not looking forward to actually being among my family *lol*
You see I'm the most awkward, shyest most introverted person you'll ever meet! I'm that person that freezes and gives weird smiles even among my family. And basically I will more than like will be sitting there feeling uncomfortable and shy while everyone discusses tractors and crop bugs (I'm not even kidding) (I come from a family of farmers) and when they do talk to me my brain will freeze and I will probably start stuttering. Again.
So basically what I'm asking is HELP! Any suggestions? (I thought bringing books was a good start)
Aww just let everyone else do the talking Kirsten and or try to stay by the people you do feel at ease with.You never know it might go a lot smoother than you think especially if you don't think about things too and just go with the flow hun :)over a year ago
I am very awkward and uncomfortable around everyone - even (at times) my boyfriend. I have a literal personality disorder (or two) that prevent me from acting normal around anyone. If I were in your situation, I would try to bring up a topic you are interested in and if they don't catch on, I'd resort to just playing games on my phone lol I wish you the best of luck Kirsten!
Thank you, Heather! I will try that :) I also do keep games on my i-pod so I'm ready in case the conversation turns into talks about corn and weevils again! *lol* XDover a year ago
Hey ladies, so I have some exciting updates! For me, anyway haha Today is pre-registration for spring classes and I've picked out the ones I want to take! America Since 1945, American National Government Today (political science), and Introduction to Astronomy. Plus I will be working again, so wish me luck!!
I just realized that I come from a family of teachers and farmers and here I am the lone digital artist! I'm either a rebel or the artistic weirdo of the family *lol* Woo hoo! π€£
Well, I'm off to the blue grass state! *lol*
I'll be back Sunday π (might be back on Fanpop Monday, depending how late it is)
Will miss you guys much! ππ€π
I'm back! And it looks like I missed a lot (dang it! *lol*) So glad to be home!
Trip was nice, went basically as I thought it would. My aunt and uncle were there, everybody talked about greenhouses, family I've never heard of and everyone's favorite the Carson and Blake show *lol* (I'm kidding, I'm very proud of my cousins, love them both π) and I just made keychains, played mahjong, puzzles on my i-pod while grieving the loss over my wi-fi *lol*
Did discover that my aunt makes the BEST mash potatoes (she promised to teach me how to make them next time)
Other than that everything went well except I forgot my coat at home and it was in the lower thirties in Kentucky along with a wind advisory... (I'll just let that one sink in) π₯Ά
I did have a thin jacket btw and a pink wool hat, though.
So, how was ya'll's weekend?
My weekend went by pretty fast and today is the first day of my new job, only I'm not doing any actual work today - just completing the introductions and such. Other than that, it's been pretty uneventful for me.
My weekend went by pretty fast too.I have been working today but only for a few hours.Good luck with your new job Heather.Have a lovely day a lovely week ahead xoover a year ago
It's official! I'm not tech savvy! I just tried to send a pic to myself but it was from the same e-mail address and now my pic is loss in cyber space! *lol* I lost my e-mail in my own e-mail address! XD
It could only happen to me! ππ³
Thanks! I've made a couple for my family. A lot of these I made in grade school and middle school. I still make them every now and then :)over a year ago
It looks great Kirsten! I am so jealous you can have tinsel! I SO wish we could, but the cats would tear the tree apart trying to get it lol I also love the icicles you have on your tree - reminds me of my childhood ornaments. I should get some more!over a year ago
Aww, thanks everyone! Except for the new ornaments all those ornaments have been around since before I was born. Some of them my mom made when she was a teen :)over a year ago
Missed you, too Heather! Not much, we got the fixings for Thanksgiving dinner and I boldly (probably stupidly *lol*) entered a contest on DeviantArt. The entry is down below :)over a year ago
Here's my entry for the Day of the Deviant. The entries are supposed to be a creation of our own world from our imaginations. We couldn't use stock so... I tried ! *lol* (the colors in the world or circle is supposed to be a abstract version of the gay and ace pride flags) Like I said I tried! XD
I need to rant about this (so I apologize!) but these 'royal' staffers (aka spoiled brats) need to stop with these pointless bullying claims against Meghan. They are grasping at straws, they have nothing! The true bully is them, her family, the press, Piers Morgan, her dad and the royal family! They are just whining cause Meghan is a strong and beautiful woman who doesn't take nothin from nobody and that drives them crazy! Well, tough! I'm team Meghan! Meghan you keep doing you! Girl power! βπ
It's good to say what you feel Kirsten and I couldn't agree more.Leave her alone they have had it in for her from day one and that just shows what toxic people they really are.When she first joined the so called "Royals" I said she was a breath of fresh air but they threw it all back in her face.In my opinion she is far better off without them all!!over a year ago
Thank you, Berni! Totally agree! And as for her appearance on Ellen, she was just having fun! They all need to lighten up! *rolls eyes!*over a year ago
Aww thank you Heather.I hope all of you my besties and your families have a wonderful day of celebrations.We don't celebrate Thanksgiving in the UK but thank you so much for including me πover a year ago
Here's a picture of my dinner, which was delicious aside from the mac & cheese unfortunately. I also had cranberry sauce but I kind of consider that a dessert so I didn't put it on my plate with everything else. Again, Happy Thanksgiving!! π¦
Hello my besties!!! It's me...again lol I'm here to tell you that the Christmas forums are now up!! There's a link to every one below. Make sure you tell the forum what kind of stuff you would like to see, and tell your other friends about it so they can post for you too!
Well ! guess what ? It's been snowing now for two days in the UK tomorrow they have given out sunshine *lol* crazy weather or what !! βοΈβοΈβοΈ
Oh, I almost forgot! Big news! Yesterday my grandfather told my dad something major! My cousin Blake is getting married! I'm going to be Atlas's new in-law! *lol*
But seriously she's a lovely girl and I'm super happy for him! Congrats Blake and Kimberly!!!!!! π₯
Be honest! I made this for DeviantArt's holiday card project. Every year they send cards to terminally ill people in hospitals. Because of Covid they're allowing digital cards. It's my first time being able to participate. So what do you think?
Hey Heather I have a question about your gift forum? I know you like horrors but do you like funny horror images? Like funny Friday the 13th memes or related images like that? I saw some but I wasn't sure if you would like that or not.
Anyway have a lovely Sunday, hun! :)
Hello my besties! It's been awhile! I hope everyone has been doing well and taking care of themselves. FInals are over and I won't be starting school for the next semester until January 16th so I am back from my hiatus! What did I miss?
Not much, did some artwork, getting ready for Christmas. I did find out someone I blocked on Deviantart somehow got magically unblocked so now I'm dealing with them again π Other than that everything's fine πover a year ago
I'm sorry you have to deal with that drama! I wish we could block people on here tbh...there's quite a few I'd like to never see again lolover a year ago
Hello besties! Just checking in on you all again, hope things are going well! I've been working a lot (which I hate) but then napping after (which I love) lol So things could definitely be worse.
Well, my therapist since I was 13 retires tomorrow :( and my poor father got a unwanted visit from a %$#@!*&% Grinch π€¬ who somehow hacked into his account with an ancient check and took his money out (Seriously, word of advice make sure you don't have any old checks floating around and if you do, shred them) My dad is taking care of it and we're getting thru but really!? Before Christmas! Bah Humbug!!! ππ‘over a year ago
Wow Kirsten, this is unbelievable. Anyway, hope you father can get his money back since thatβs 99% the bankβs fault (the scumbag who took his money probably hadnβt even put much effort into it.)over a year ago
Everything is fine with me, besties, except maybe a stubborn wisdom tooth that decided to come in now and is bothering me like crazy, ugh. Just hope it grows fast. πover a year ago
No worries he got it back but that *bleep!* (god I wish I could cuss! *lol*) is not getting away with this! The law will catch up with them for sure!over a year ago
I'm sorry your dad had to go through that Kirsten! I can't imagine, I'm so paranoid of someone doing that to me too that I rip up everything I receive. Sometimes even just coupons.over a year ago
Do you besties have any plans for the weekend? I hope to do absolutely nothing lol Maybe I will watch some Law & Order to catch up on that. I've got 20 seasons to get to before season 21 starts up again!
I hope it's okay to post here but I'm doing a forum for my club's new look and it's all hands on deck! *lol*
so if anyone wants to contribute some ideas here's a link to my club: link
Sorry I haven't been here in a while I have been poorly with an awful virus.Feeling better now though but you have all been in my thoughts and prayers. Love ya xo
So I fell again today, and I fell on my Christmas tree. Thankfully nothing is ruined except for the left side of my stomach since I scraped it really good on the side of the tv stand. Hope you're all doing better than I am!